Love is not just loving others

Loving yourself more than others is what I call self love and people often confuse it with being selfish.

Lacking consideration for other people,one who is concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure is what some definitions I got about the word “selfish”.

I keep these two at completely different levels.

Self love simply means first loving yourself and then others,not at the cost of cutting others part of love but simply loving a bit more yourself.

There's no harm in loving yourself prior to others,yes it gives you your peace of mind.

If I talk of bookish things and reel life people often quote “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage”,is it really?what about loving yourself first and doubling your strength and courage?since no one is going to love you if you can’t love yourself.

Love your soul,pamper yourself,protect yourself from toxic people, live what you love,hit the beach when you feel low,go on a lone trip,read some inspirational books.Take out a day from your week,for yourself,let that day be completely yours,no friends,no dramas,no bulshitts,just you and your time.

Sit back,do what you love,drawings,listening music,gaming,gymming,writing,dancing,singing,check out any ngo,spend few hours with underprivileged people.

Spend some quality time with elders,trust me you will have the best experiences of life google can't even teach you.

Go outside,play with kids,take your stress out,because eventually one day everything will fall in place and right now you are just simply wasting out your time and energy.

That’s it,is it  a rocket science to learn?

When you end up with people who don’t love you anymore,what you are all left with is an empty soul and a disturbed mindset.

You end up falling into parts and your heart is burdened,but trust me you will never be disappointed if you practise self love.

Try loving your soul the same way you loved others,but this time with little more determination and a healing power.

Self love is not just important,it’s obligatory to harmonize your soul,honor your pride and  help your heart to grow with every positive vibe.

Self love is a magic you need to have every time you feel like giving up on yourself just because of few trivial things stressing out your life.